Friday, November 16, 2012

TO BE LOVED!!!




We’ve all felt it. To be loved by someone. There may be no greater feeling than that.

Sure, loving on someone is pretty cool too, but it’s truly something special about being on the receiving end of the ‘four letter word’ "LOVE" that is much more weighty. Am I right?

We spend so much time in relationships trying to prove, earn and show how much we love people that we forget the true experience of any relationship is to know and feel how much they love you! 

Just think about it.  In a relationship, you feel most like your true self when you know a person LOVES you à has your back, has seen you at your worst (and still decides to be with you), allows you to ask silly questions (with no side eyes-lol), and knows the real truth about who and all you are, but thinks you’re an awesome person even the more!  That is when you can allow yourself to experience, in full, what that relationship has to offer and reap those relationship’s benefits.

Well, if you were to apply that thinking to God’s love…you will finally start to understand the key to a relationship with Christ!  We spend so much time thinking we have to earn God’s love, when He knew [before you were born] that there was no way you could possibly achieve that. Why do you think He sacrificed His only son to die in our behalf? Because He knew that we were going to mess up and act up, yet He still wanted to redeem us! Let’s face it…if someone told you on the first date that they were going to cheat, lie and steal from you, would you even bother staying for dessert? Well, not only did God stay with you…He took care of the bill because He loves you that much.

The key to a relationship with Him is in understanding HIS LOVE FOR YOU! When you finally get that, you can be yourself, just as we previously mentioned. Because you understand [and are fully aware] of His love for you, you know He has your back, has seen you at your worst (and still desires to be with you), allows you to ask silly questions (with no side eyes), knows the truth of who you are, who you are going to be and still knows you are an AWESOME person…because He created you in His image! When that realization happens, it is then that you can experience in full what that relationship has to offer and reap those benefits!

Really, it’s not that hard.  Just enjoy knowing that you are so very deeply loved…in an immeasurable way that tops any kind of love that you have felt before. You can’t earn it…it’s just there for you.  Don’t be afraid of that love, just receive it and let it consume you. Rest in the fact that you can’t change it, it just exists and it’s real…it’s a 'come as you are and be loved' type of thing. It’s personal, yes He loves us all, however, you, separated from it all, mean so much to Him individually. That is the true experience of a relationship with God!



***nom nom nom...that is soooo good!*** LOL

Seriously though, if you want to dive a little deeper, I can recommend some good reading to you. I mean, after all...the majority of successful relationships start with learning more about the other, along with communication - same applies to your relationship with God!

Love you all so much!

Ally P


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